Poem - Black mums, They aren't hard to reach

29 September 2021
Written by Chaneen Saliee
Black mums,
 
They aren’t hard to reach,
the only problem
is that society needs to re-teach, themselves. Reach deep deep within themselves
to ask the questions
To learn the lessons
that will lead you to help a black mother in need,
and please,
please
 
 
Don’t come with mere performative allyship
If I can be honest,
with you,
for a second…
 
We’re sick of it.
Completely sick
And when we tell you we’re sick,
listen to it!
 
Because we’re losing our lives
It’s been too long
That we’re more than
Five
Times likely to die
When for the first times in our lives
We’re truly needed to be alive.
We’re truly seen with eyes of love,
that look up to us
and trust.
 
 
Black mums
They aren’t hard to reach
They come to you,
In your surgeries,
your hospitals.
your social care offices
 
You so sure you care, officers?
My son hasn’t done any thing wrong,
No, please.
I’m his mum,
Don’t shoot my baby, in front of his mum.
No please put down that gu… 😢
 
I digress,
Well, not really,
I just skipped a beat,
Because even when their baby’s grow up
The stress doesn’t leave.
 
Will my son survive the streets another day?
Will my daughter give birth and live to see another day?
 
Black mums,
They aren’t hard to reach,
They come to you in their sleep,
They’re screaming and shouting,
But you cannot hear them speak,
 
They may say to you, about their dreams,
It’s a straight jacket I’m in
and I’m on a tight rope
If I fall now, I’ve got no hope
to save myself
And well, is it even worth it
All I am to you is another BAME,
Tut, I mean another name, in a folder upon a shelf.
Yet still here I am
I’m pleading with you for a little bit of help.
 
And so you help - with the best that you have
But it’s not enough
You’ve educated yourself
You studied hard.
But it’s all just fluff
The statistic are clear
Year after year,
Awareness with out action
 
That’s why you speak
out,
Speak loud,
Speak often.
 
The “I can’t relate,” “I’m uncomfortable,”
 
 
It hurts, to feel this way,
A fatal burden,
A mental pain,
It’s black maternal mental health week,
I’m asking you, will you rise up with us and speak?
 
Chaneen Saliee for Black Maternal Mental Health Week - 2021

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